Empower the men in your church to walk in true freedom and light.

Breaking the Chains of Lust
and Pornography

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From Shadows to Salvation

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Transformed Discipleship Ministry
Transformed Discipleship Ministry

The Unspoken Battle of Our Brothers in Christ

They Live It

In the heart of our spiritual community lies an unspoken challenge: the shadow of lust and pornography.

They Feel It

Our brothers carry guilt, isolation, and shame. Masked by the façade of normalcy, they wrestle with unworthiness and distance from God’s grace.

They See the Need For Change

Silence isn’t the solution. Every man deserves an avenue to share, heal, and transform. Let’s make churches the epicenter of understanding and spiritual revival.

The Undeniable Impact of Pornography in Our Faith Community

Startling Statistics:

Kids as young as 8 are exposed to porn
(Focus on the Family)

70% of Christian men struggle with pornography
(Focus on the Family)

57% of pastors and 64% of youth pastors are addicted to lust and pornography
(Barna)

Only 7% of pastors run programs for those addicted to pornography
(CRU)

We've Walked the Path.
We Know What it Takes to Find Freedom.

We understand the struggle. We’ve been in the trenches and fought our way out through a relationship with Jesus Christ.

We’ve found victory and redemption. We no longer see ourselves as dirty and unworthy. We’re freed brothers, and we're not going back.

Pastors have a pivotal role, but they're not alone in this mission. With God's grace, we can lift each other up.

Brandon McRay, our founder and author of Transformed After Porn, has charted a course that’s guiding countless men towards purity and a deeper connection with Jesus.

  • “I can genuinely say Transformed Discipleship Ministry is a game-changer. I've seen countless individuals break free from the chains of addiction to pornography and lust. Instead of relying on sheer willpower, this program harnesses the undeniable strength of God's Holy Spirit. It's truly encouraging to see addiction, a topic once ignored or whispered about, being addressed so openly and effectively thanks to programs like this."

    - Bo Brannon

  • "Over the past three years, I've observed and garnered feedback about Transformed Discipleship Ministry, created to aid men in their struggles with pornography and lust. What sets this program apart is its defined, step-by-step process combined with the invaluable relational aspect: having someone who's triumphed over the same struggles guide you through. Transformed brings men together, underscoring the biblical mandate to carry one another's burdens. This program is not a magical solution; it requires commitment, but it offers a supportive pathway toward true freedom for those who are determined. I cannot stress enough the profound impact it's had on our community; it truly is a vital tool for strengthening our men, their marriages, and the church as a whole."

    - Zach Gryder

  • "Through Transformed Discipleship Ministry, I've observed that its uniqueness is in the community of genuine, trustworthy men I've had the honor to meet. As a coach, I’ve seen men share, stand in the gap for each other, and walk through life's challenges together. This ministry has given men a platform to open up, grow, and truly transform. In a time when churches seem to be embracing much of the worldly culture, it's refreshing to find a group that provides structure, encouragement, and the tools to overcome and thrive. It's more than just a group; it's a God-led journey, and I'm grateful to be a part of it."

    - Christian McCarthy

“It is Valiant Hearts' honor to support this ministry that addresses the hearts of men and freedom from sexual sin, the fuel for sexual exploitation. If given the opportunity, I am sure the women we serve would say thank you, as well.

Transformed’s work is incredible and a window into freedom and discipleship. We are praying for strength and encouragement as this ministry blazes new trails in this arena.”

- Janet Lovrien, Valiant Hearts Executive Director

The Path to True Freedom

We know you want your church to see the fruit of freedom in Christ.  But it feels impossible to attain when 70% of Christian men struggle with the bondage of pornography.  Many churches don’t know how to overcome the issue, so they ignore it or deal only with the symptoms.  Men feel the shame of their struggle and believe they’re the only ones who experience it.  The topic is taboo, and it’s kept hidden.

We believe it shouldn’t be so hard to find help and accountability. It should be easier for men to talk about the struggles they face. We understand. And it’s why we founded Transformed Discipleship Ministry and wrote Transformed After Porn. Through our transformational program, many men have found freedom and the numbers continue to climb.

Here’s how you can bring this level of freedom to your church:

Purchase the Book Transformed After Porn

Help others unlock a life of true freedom! Dive into a transformative journey to help others find freedom from lust and pornography through a relationship with Jesus Christ. This guide will help you establish this Transformed Discipleship Ministry model within your church or as a personal ministry. Rediscover your purpose while supporting others through the profound love of the Savior.

Join the Effort →

70% of churched men struggle with pornography. Transformed Discipleship Ministry offers accountability and a proven path to freedom. But to make the impact we’re called to make, we need your help. Join the effort by registering your church or donating to the ministry.

Help Others Find Freedom

Introduce Transformed Discipleship Ministry to your church to help individuals and activate coaches. By helping others find freedom, you not only change lives, you change generations. Answer the call to become an agent of hope. When you register your church, we’ll provide the help and tools you need.

Brandon McRay

Head Dealer of Hope/President of the Transformed Discipleship Ministry and the author of 'Transformed After Porn.'

Brandon is a Christ Follower, husband, father, and layman within his local church. The Lord has allowed Brandon to play college football at and graduate from West Point, fly Blackhawk helicopters and drones, live abroad, earn a graduate degree, retire from the Air Force as a Lieutenant Colonel, return from four Iraq and Afghanistan deployments, and save many lives. Aside from following Jesus, marrying his wife, and fathering his children, Brandon states those military accomplishments do not compare to getting into the deep spiritual trenches with a struggling brother through the Transformed Discipleship Ministry model. Brandon prays that billions of men will find freedom from lust and pornography and come into a deep and abiding relationship with Jesus Christ.

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